Are you a flake?

In: Blog

6 Apr 2010

Join the club.

Urban Dictionary: flake

That’s the Urban Dictionary’s definition of a flake. Ouch.

I’m such a flake, I decided to start a whole new blog about it: The Complete Flake. It’s all about my efforts to get things done in spite of myself, and maybe help others figure out some solutions along the way.

Check it out!

Road trip!

In: Blog

14 Mar 2010

Okay, I’m talking WAY in advance here – a year – but I’m too excited not to blog about it. Plus, I want to save my dream itinerary for future reference:

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My friend Lindy and I decided I should go visit her in Alabama sometime after Mardi Gras when the weather is still cool. Then I realized I have several cousins and a girlfriend to visit along the way there and back. And look: Austin! In March! I might actually be able to go to SXSW 2011!

Travel planning = half the fun. Saving for it = not the other half.

My twenty-something nephew is a pretty impressive guy.

He’s tall, good-looking – and hungry. He wants to make something of himself and he’s willing to work hard for it. I remember when Sam [not his real name] was fourteen and getting ready to enter high school. He decided to try out for the state champion football team. All summer long, he beefed up, worked out, and got me and his grandmother to drive him to practice after practice in the sizzling, Southern California heat.

He got his wish.

College football game

Eventually, my nephew became a star offensive linebacker in several more championship seasons, then went on to a full-ride football scholarship. The future looked bright indeed. NFL dreams danced in our heads.

Then it all came to a crashing halt. Read the rest of this entry »

Now that I’ve moved this site and a dozen or so others to the new server, I’ve installed WordPress MU on Bornfamous and plan to consolidate the blogs of friends, relatives and personal projects into it, so there will only be one WPMU installation to keep track of instead of eight individual WP installs. So nice!

I know I should have just moved them directly into MU instead of setting them up with new WP installs all over again, but it was a panic situation with the old server down for days, and I still wasn’t comfortable with MU.

Not there yet but there’s only one way to get there, and that’s to jump in, one blog at a time. Thanks to Andrea R for the tutorial–and many more that I haven’t gotten to yet.

Photo credit: jay_que

MUCH better

In: Design|Wordpress

26 Nov 2009

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I am SO. LOVING. this theme, called Compositio, from Design Disease. [And it's free--go figure.] It’s so perfect, I don’t want to even TRY to customize it. Maybe just a logo. Or not.

About this blog

I'm not really famous. In case you were wondering. But I tried. I once believed that fame makes you real - a perversion of "The Velveteen Rabbit" theme that love makes you real. Guess I equated fame with love. Sad. You can read more about that here.

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